About Floss & FAQ

Who am I; and why do I have a blog?

I am a blogger, podcaster, queer, non-monogamous kinkster amongst other things. I started this blog when my journey into non-monogamy began, I intended it do be about one woman’s journey from monogamy into polyamory. However, since then it has become so much more. I essentially have a blog, because I have a voice and I have become enthralled by sharing it with all of my wonderful readers.

What is this blog about now?

Non-monogamy still features, and is still a big part of my blog posts and my erotica. Alongside that you will also get regular doses of Kink, Fetish, BDSM, erotica and product reviews. I write about these things because they are present in life on a daily basis and I am passionate about sharing that with other people. Sexuality, gender, alternative lifestyles and new relationship models all show up fairly frequently too.

What is the Ethos of this blog?

Regardless of the topic this blog aims to be inclusive, positive and non-judgemental. I am open to discussing all the opinions I hold and voice both here and on the podcast. However this blog is a safe space for both myself and my readers. I will not publish hateful or antagonistic comments designed to upset and belittle either myself or my readers.

I’m new to your blog, where should I begin?

Excellent question. If you landed here because FemDom is your thing, then my FemDom Friday series would be a great place to start. All my erotica can be found in one place, if you’d like to begin with a favourite of mine though then ‘Cool Shower – Part 1‘ is a piece I’m particularly fond of.

Who or what is a Bakji?

If you read enough of my blog posts you will see Bakji mentioned many times. He is my sexy friend, partner in kink shenanigans, cohort in product testing and generally my go to guy for many of life’s adventures.

Can I work with you?

There is a very good chance you can. If you head over to my ‘Work With Me’ page you will find more details working with me there.

I have a question about Kink/Non-Monogamy etc can I email you?

Of course. Please do. If you are unsure about any aspect of the topics I discuss on my blog or on ProudToBeKinky you are more than welcome to reach out to me and I will happily listen and advise where appropriate.